Sunday 12 November 2017

Moving Moments Ch.17 - The End of the Beginning

Moving Moments
Chapter 17
The End of the Beginning

Elaine and Julia. They were such sweet little tiddlers
Our SU lives kept us very focused. Did we have much of a life outside of SU? In fact we did manage to keep some other things on the go which meant we were busy to say the least.

It was fun to see the girls growing up and beginning to do all the things that little girls do. Piano, ballet and swimming lessons, along with a fair dose of birthday parties were all part of the mix. Probably our source of most satisfaction was in how the girls were so happily involved in all of the SU activities that we were. They got to see camps and holiday clubs happen from the ground up. When the activities came along they were thoroughly involved as campers. They became veteran campers and no doubt would have ended up becoming one of the teenage leaders at some point, who they so ardently looked up to.

Julia on right in one of her school
dramatic productions
Julia and Elaine with their collection of buddies. 
Julia and Elaine attended Clarendon Prep and Primary school respectively. This was a five minute drive from our house. Like many of the East London government schools, the standard of teaching and quality of education was akin to a very pricey private school. Clarendon was a girl’s only school  and many of the teachers were Christians, which of course gave it its own unique flavor. There was an SU group at the Primary school, which Elaine attended faithfully along with her buddies. Cher and Audrey Anderson both ran that group. Clarendon was “old school” in many of its practices and policies. When the teacher entered the classroom the girls had to stand up and greet her and could only sit when the teacher gave permission. This mimicked our own upbringing in Northern and Southern Rhodesia and we thoroughly approved this.

Julia - student at
Clarendon Prep
Elaine - student at
Clarendon Primary
After two or three years of living at the SU house, SU began to grow and needed more space. As it happened we were ready to move out. The SU house was on the edge of a low income area and it was quite common to have beggars coming to our front door asking for food. We would go into the kitchen, make some sandwiches and duly deliver them, with a piece of fruit. It wasn’t uncommon for the individuals to look at our bread sandwiches in disgust and throw them down the passage back at us. They were looking for money and our offering didn’t impress them. These fairly regular visitations also meant that we had to be more on guard security wise. We still had the money from the sale of our house in Johannesburg and decided it was time to buy a house of our own. We would regain our privacy and we could choose a part of the city we’d like to live in.

Cher’s sister Lynne, and husband Glenn Paterson had moved back to East London a year or two earlier as Glen had been transferred there with his job. They were living in Nahoon, which was a nice quiet suburb on a main road heading towards Nahoon Beach. Naturally Cher wanted to live close to her sister, and so it was that we ended up a couple of small blocks from them at 67 Kennington Road. Our house was small but in great condition. We had a nice front yard but a huge back yard which dipped down at the back and overlooked a dambo, which is a type of wetland. About a quarter of a kilometer away we could see the next row of houses on the other sider of the dambo. After the craziness of the SU house we felt very privileged to have such a beautiful, private outlook all to ourselves. We began to settle down to life in the ‘burbs’.

It was around this time that I started to have a real problem with sleeping at night. My SU responsibilities kept me very busy and I would often go to bed my head buzzing with the doings of the day. This would be followed by hours of sleeplessness, often only relieved when I would get up to do some of the work that was keeping my mind so occupied. This wasn’t a healthy way to conduct my life as I don’t function too well with lack of sleep. I guess we had been praying about it when a thought dropped into my mind – “maybe I should cut out my 10pm cup of coffee” which I was used to enjoying before bedtime. I suppose our bodies change and at some point I couldn’t tolerate as much caffeine. I cut out the late night coffee and lo and behold I got my sleep back for the most part. I’m grateful to the Lord for leading me to this simple conclusion otherwise I might have been a basket case in the not too distant future.

Some of our SU Band of Brothers
L to R. - Mike Smallbones, Peter Holmes (SU National
Director) & Daryl Henning
One of the things which my SU work entailed was getting together once or twice a year with all of the Area Directors from the rest of South Africa. There were about 8-10 of us. It was always a time of good fellowship. Iron sharpens iron and so it was with us. At that time we were all men. We were a band of brothers on a mission together. At the same time as we were encouraging one another, we were actually spurring one another on to greater things. We would have times of worship together. There is something uniquely inspiring about men, who are sold out to God, singing lustily to God at the top of their voices. I used to come away from these meetings both inspired and motivated but also sometimes feeling the burden of not being able to keep up with all of the super talented guys we had on our national team, lead by Peter Holmes.

I was Presbyterian, but most of the rest of our leadership group were died in the wool Baptists. At that time in South Africa there was a lot of buzz about “Signs and Wonders” teaching that was coming in and young people were flocking to charismatic churches where they found openness to this approach. SU was the largest youth ministry in the country and we were beginning to feel that we might be losing touch with our audience. We needed to get up to speed with all the Signs and Wonders phenomena. John Wimber, from California, was one of the leaders at the forefront of this teaching. Cher and I had first encountered John Wimber whilst at Bible College in UK, when one of our classes was visited by the Holy Spirit in a wonderful and memorable way inspired by a guy who had attended a John Wimber conference in London.  He was going to be in Johannesburg for a week of teaching to church leaders, so our group of rather died in the wool, stodgy evangelicals decided to risk life and limb and go and see what he had to say. We also decided to encourage other SU staff around the country to go aswell. We held our breath and made our way to Johannesburg at the appointed time. I was excited. If God had something going on and we were missing out, I wanted to know about it and be part of it.

John Wimber's teaching had a big impact on me. 
John Wimber was a breath of fresh air. His teaching was fascinating but not at all scary or weird. He told his story of how he had come into this type of ministry from a drugs and rock and roll background. When he came to the Lord, his background was so unchurched that he expected that the miracles and signs and wonders told of in the Bible were to be the norm for this day and age too. The stories are too many to tell, but the bottom line is that he recounted how as he prayed to God for modern day miracles, God began to lead him into a ministry in this direction. It started with “words of knowledge”, which gave an insight into how God was wanting to work and who and how people should be prayed for. With this type of prayer, there was a far higher rate of “successful outcomes”. He also showed how the disciples were initially a stumbling, bumbling bunch of regular men who needed to practice and hone their ministry skill set before they could effectively pull off miracles for themselves. He encouraged us to pray expectantly and then put into practice some of what we had learnt from him. The bottom line was that we began to practice asking God how we should pray for people and situations and then listen for any words of knowledge which might come and then pray accordingly. We don’t need to fear “failure” as it is our job to ask, and it’s God’s role to answer. Responsibility for the outcome of our prayers resides with God. I found this a very releasing approach. If things didn’t work out as I wanted or expected, it didn’t matter. The outcome was in God’s hands.  As an SU leadership team our week with John Wimber represented a step forward as we embraced a greater openness to the work of the Holy Spirit in our personal lives and ministries.

Mom and Dad in their golden years
During the week with John Wimber I had been staying with Mom and Dad in Boksburg. Dad had been suffering a lot of physical discomfort with a very painful hip. I was coming home each day from the John Wimber conference and giving Mom and Dad a blow by blow account of what was happening, including some of the signs and wonders. Mom was interested and Dad was polite. He was not a Christian. His pride was holding him back from 25 – 30 years ago when my sister Rose had come home from UK to Chingola, in Zambia, as a newly minted Christian, to announce to her family that we were “ all heathens and needed to be saved, otherwise we were all going to hell”. Whilst this statement may have been true it had not gone down well, especially with Dad. He had hunkered down and refused to countenance Christianity from that time on. At the end of the week with Mom and Dad, as I was heading out of the door to catch my plane, I finally plucked up the courage to say to Dad, “Dad all week we have been praying for people to be healed of various ailments and we have seen some amazing miracles. How’s about we pray for your hip and perhaps the Lord will heal you?” I think Dad was so desperate with the pain in his hip he didn’t feel he had anything to lose, so he agreed. I prayed and as far as I could tell nothing happened, nor did Dad feel any improvement. I was disappointed, but said to him, “Dad, don’t lose heart. Maybe God will still heal you over the next few days”, and then I left for the airport.

Jesus knocks patiently at the
door of our lives
About three weeks later, Cher and I had to be in Johannesburg for a family event and another SU meeting. We drove up to Johannesburg and were discussing why nothing had “happened” when I had prayed for Dad. As I was reflecting on it, a word dropped into my mind. John Wimber, describes a word of knowledge as a “whis” or half a whisper. It’s a thought, that is half heard and there is no certainty that it is more than just one’s imagination. Nevertheless one prays in faith, trusting that it is God who has spoken and not just our minds playing tricks. The word didn’t reflect well on Dad or his character. I wondered if the word that had dropped into my mind was a word of knowledge. A couple of days later, we were having a family gathering and I decided I would get Dad in a corner and talk to him on his own. I found my opportunity and asked him, “Dad has there been any improvement in your hip?” The response was negative. “Dad, is there anything in your life that perhaps may be standing between you and God healing you?” I said. Once again the response was negative. I took a deep breath and said, “Dad does the word…..mean anything to you? Do you think this might be standing in the way of God healing you?” Once again there was a negative response from Dad. At that stage, unplanned, the words just tumbled out of my mouth and I said, “Dad, have you ever asked Jesus into your life?” “No”, was the response. I said to him, “Dad would you like to ask Him into your life?” He said, quietly and simply, “Yes!”. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. This was my tough, proud Dad who had backed himself into a corner of pride, decades earlier and had refused steadfastly to respond to the Good News for all this time. I explained to Dad that if he really meant it, he was going to have to give up and renounce some things which he held dear, including all of his Masonic regalia and vows. Dad quite simply said, “I’m willing to give up those things”. With that response, I lead Dad in a simple prayer of commitment, which I used with kids in my SU work and also he renounced his sin and his Masonic allegiances. Together we dug out his Masonic regalia and he surrendered it to me to be destroyed. My week with John Wimber had lead me to, pray for him for healing and then a word of knowledge had somehow unlocked Dad’s willingness to let go of his pride and invited Jesus into his heart and life. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. Dad was 80 at the time. We had prayed for him for decades and he had finally come into the Kingdom. He was too old to do much about becoming very involved in church, but at night he and Mom would hold hands and lie in bed and Dad would say to her, “You pray My Dear and I’ll listen”. Oh my goodness, how good God is. My prayer for healing for Dad had been answered in the most wonderful way possible, but not in the way I had expected it to be.

We literally gave Mom and Dad a Pot of Gold.
They would be digesting the impact of that for months. 
Mom and Dad's 50th Celebration
was a lot of fun. 
In 1989, Mom and Dad celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. A large family gathering was planned at Nev and Mau’s house in Benoni. Cher and I went up for the celebration. What do you buy for folks at that age and stage that would be of any use to them? Eventually we decided on something quite different. There was a brand of canned food in South Africa at the time called “Pot of Gold”. We decided to buy one of each type of canned food that Pot of Gold sold. We couldn’t believe how many there were. When we were done, the cans filled a large laundry hamper. We had fun with Mom and Dad as they opened up their treasures one by one. They had enough food there to last them about six months. At the celebration party at Nev and Mau’s house everybody who wanted to, could stand up and say a word or two about the happy couple. At this stage, Mom’s old “houseboy”, Dhluwayo, who we called “July” was working for Nev and Mau in a very light capacity. After leaving Zambia in 1974, Mom and Dad had left July in Zambia as they didn’t feel that taking him back to apartheid South Africa would be good for him, after having experienced the freedom available to him in Zambia. July had regularly pleaded with Mom to bring him back to South Africa so that he could look after her. Mom and Dad were not in a position to do this, but eventually Nev was able to bring him down to South Africa and give him a retirement job in their house. July was at the celebration and towards the end of people saying a word or two July stood up and said his piece. In a very traditional African way, he started at the very beginning and recounted how he had started working with Mom when he was seventeen. He then went on to name the years of various family occasions and celebrations, from that time on, including years of birth of the four kids, Neville, Rosemary, Alan and Rob. It was a wonderful tribute to our family and showed us in no uncertain terms that he considered himself as, and in fact was, a loyal member of our family. July died, some years later, cared for to his dying day by members of our family as he spent his last days in hospital.


Cousin's, Aunts, Grannies and kids
 Ernest Cornish's children  - Pat, Jimmy
and Llewellin on the right with families

These kinds of family gatherings were few and far between, but wonderful when we had occasion to gather such as for Mom and Dad's 50th. Now our family is scattered over four continents - a sad commentary on Southern  Africa's troubled history. 



This would be the last time our original family of six Cornish's would be together in one place
L. to R. Neville, Rosemary, Douglas (Dad), Daphne (Mom), Alan and Robin

Cher and I were members at Stirling Presbyterian Church in East London. The pastor was George Anderson, who had been a SU staff worker in East London 6–8 years before my time. For that reason George, knew our situation well and was very supportive of us and our work. Stirling Presbyterian was one of East London’s flagship evangelical churches and remains so to this day. One of the things that SU did was to promote daily Bible reading by Christians as a way of growing in the Lord. SU offered a range of devotional guides which we encouraged people to help people to read the Bible daily. I had used these “SU Notes” as they were called, since becoming a Christian, so I knew their value in a personal way. George was a great supporter of SU Notes and did a very good job of promoting their use in his congregation. About 100 people in the congregation were reading the same Bible passage each day of their lives. It made for a great way to enjoy fellowship together and it was common for folks to say to one another, “What did you think of today’s passage?” I became an elder at the church and Cher got involved in a Friday afternoon kid’s club, which our girls attended, called Adventurers. George, with his SU background knew tons of games, which he taught to the kids and of course Cher. Because of this on the job training, Cher is to this day, our “go to” person when looking for a good icebreaker or game to play to build relationships.

Dale College - a top boys school
in the Border Region. 
In July of 1990 Cher and I were running the King William’s Town Holiday Club. We had inherited this activity from Jeremy Clampett and had run it every year since he left. The Holiday Club was run at Dale College which was an all boy’s boarding school. The team would occupy the dormitory facilities and then we would use the school hall and meeting rooms to run the club. We had a morning program for the kids and a teenage program for the youth in the evenings. We knew the ropes by this stage and whilst never over confident, we did have things under control. Little did we know what was about to happen. On the first night of our teenage program, our band was getting warmed up and practicing before the program began. They were having problems getting the sound right. Nevertheless we continued on. The program went off fine, but the music was definitely off and the sound was distorting. Once the visiting youth left, we normally did a team debrief at the end of each day. On this occasion we were all sitting on the floor in a circle and discussing what had happened to the sound on the evening program, when suddenly one of the girls screamed. We were astounded and asked her what was going on. She replied, “a voice just spoke in my ear and said it was going to kill me”. We were shocked. We had been there with her and hadn’t heard anything. We decided that it was possible we were experiencing a demonic attack and we needed to begin to pray and praise the Lord and declare His sovereignty. We stood up, held hands, and began to sing and praise God. Almost immediately one of of our mature guy leaders began to laugh uncontrollably. We had heard of this phenomenon happening in some churches so weren’t too surprised. We assumed he would stop after a while, but he continued on and seemed out of control. Eventually I got some of the guys to escort him to the farthest dormitory and leave him there as he was causing a disturbance. We definitely felt we were under attack. We moved into a smaller room and tried to figure out what to do next. At that point one of the girls was struck dumb. We were beside ourselves trying to figure out how to cope with everything that was going on. SU did not do this kind of stuff! We continued to pray and then we asked the girl to write down on a piece of paper what was going on and why she couldn’t speak. She wrote some words on the paper in a language that no one understood or recognized. We asked if anyone in the room had an interpretation and someone did. I cannot remember what it said, but it was a strange nonsensical message that was hard to comprehend. By this stage it was getting late. We seemed to have reached an impasse with whatever demonic forces were attacking us. We had a full and busy program to run the next day, so I said to the team, “Go to bed and when we wake up in the morning, everything will be ok”. So we sent the one guy who was still laughing and the girl who could not speak, to bed in that condition. Nothing else seemed to be working. Cher and I went to our quarters amazed and perplexed at what we were experiencing. One of the more mature guys on our team went to bed and was immediately overwhelmed by a crushing fear which threatened to suffocate him. He cried out to the two guys in the beds on either side of him to pray for him at which point the fear left him. The next morning our laugher had finally stopped laughing and our dumb girl had got her speech back. That was a good thing as I was wondering how I was going to explain to her parents that their sweet daughter had had her voice stolen at our SU Holiday Club! Our team continued functioning well but everyone was understandably very twitchy, and tended to be spotting demons around every corner and behind every bush. Eventually on the third day of the Club one of the team member guys who had been staying at home, asked for permission to speak to the team as he had a word from the Lord. He announced that this had been a distraction, caused by Satan and that we were there to reach the kids with the gospel and it was time to stop demon spotting and get on with our jobs. It was as if someone walked into the room and switched on a light. The team took a deep breath, the atmosphere lifted and we finished the week on a high note. 

King Williams Town Holiday Club
Our team of experienced teen
leaders did a great job despite
trying circumstances
King Williams Town Holiday Club
Eunice Easton and I leading singing 
The sequel to this story was I needed to go and speak to the school principal to explain to him what had transpired during our Holiday Club and in his buildings.  I suspected he’d think I’d gone off my rocker. Instead he listened quietly. When I finished, he told me that some of the boys in the boarding school had been engaging in occult activities in the dormitories. A few weeks prior to the Holiday Club some of these boys had found a black man walking on one of the sports fields at night and had beaten him to death with a hockey stick. I had read the story of the man having been killed in the newspaper but there had been no mention that it was schoolboys who had done it. That experience alerted me in a very real way as to the fact that in much of our work there were spiritual forces at play that could not be seen. Normally God’s sovereignty ruled out the kind of attack we had experienced. Clearly though in this instance, Satan and his minions had been called into play in a very specific way and evil had been let out of the box. We were inexperienced in dealing with such a direct attack, but God’s control was never seriously in doubt.


It was around about the middle of 1989 that I was driving down the road on my way from running a Holiday Club when I was listening to the news. The big story of the day was about a skirmish our South Africa Defence Force (SADF) troops had encountered in Namibia, on the border with Angola, with SWAPO freedom fighters. Seven or so of our SADF forces had been killed in the fight. This kind of cross border military action was not out of the ordinary as the SADF were active in keeping insurgents at bay on our borders. However, this time I found myself seeing it through different lenses. I could see that the political situation in South Africa was not going to get better. It was going to get worse. The world stood united against South Africa and the future looked bleak for the whites. The townships were in chaos, with a post Soweto riot generation of young blacks who were extremely militant. People in the townships who were considered as apartheid collaborators were being hounded and killed by these out of control youngsters, often by necklacing. Necklacing involved forcing a tire over the arms and shoulders of a victim. Gasoline was then poured into the tire and set alight, leaving the hapless individual helpless and dying a horrible death. Cher and I had been through this process of the black folk claiming their rights in the face of resistant whites in Northern Rhodesia/Zambia and then Southern Rhodesia/Zimbabwe for most of our lives. It never ended well for the whites who were condemned by the world as oppressors and forced to give up the fight for control of the country. I could see that South Africa was likely headed the same way. At that moment, as I drove home after a good day at the SU Holiday Club, that thought came into my mind and began to take root.

The more I thought about it, the more I felt that it was time for Cher and I to consider leaving South Africa and start looking for somewhere else in the world where being white was not grounds for blanket condemnation and where our girls could grow up in safety and security. This began a long conversation for Cher and I, which at times was tense and other times had its humorous side. Our biggest concern in thinking about leaving was that we would be saying good bye to our families. Neither of us liked the idea of leaving aging parents in their twilight years. Fortunately there were siblings on either side to be with our parents, but it didn’t feel good to be considering leaving them. We had faced this possibility when we went to Bible College in UK and God had brought us back to South Africa. One solution was to see if the whole family could move together and set up in a new country of our choosing. I broached this subject with the wider family at one point and the idea was dismissed out of hand. Leaving South Africa in those days was considered tantamount to “taking the chicken run” or an act of betrayal, so bang went that idea.

Canada had always been a country that fascinated me. 
In an internet and Google-less world, research was done in the good old fashioned way via the library. One day I went to the library and took out a pile of books on UK, USA, Australia, New Zealand and Canada. I was content to limit our search to countries where English was spoken and our basic culture would not have to change dramatically. On paging through the books I ruled out UK - lousy weather, USA – too hard to get into, Australia – too dry and barren looking and finally New Zealand – beautiful, but too far from anywhere. That left Canada. I loved the pictures of the mountains, green forests and picturesque lakes. I had always been fascinated by Canada when poring over maps as a child. It was so big and grand and seemed to offer us a British background country with what must be lots of opportunity.  I guessed they would have significant spiritual needs. Which country doesn’t? They also had a small SU work going and maybe needed help. It was geographically much more central to the things that we felt were central and important. It was a neighbor to the USA and a short flight to UK which had always been a type of focal point in our worlds with our British colonial background. It was also a consideration that Rose and Roy were living not too far from Toronto as they were back from their work with Wycliffe in the Philippines. If we were to be moving to the other side of the world away from most of our family, we should try and be close to Rose and Roy if that was a possibility.

Having completed my less than scientific, objective research, Cher and I went to have afternoon tea with George and Audrey Anderson. We were good friends with their whole family. Their four girls and our two were ardent SU campers and good friends at church, school and camp. It was a Monday, George’s pastor’s day off. While Cher and Audrey were in the kitchen making the tea, I thought I might confide in George, as our friend and pastor, the struggle that we were going through in gaining peace over the matter of leaving South Africa or not. As I was bracing myself for the conversation, George leaned over to me in a confiding way and said, “Rob, I have something to share with you. Audrey and I are considering leaving South Africa and moving to Canada”. I nearly fell off my seat. I had just come from my research project, having arrived at the same conclusion, and here was George telling me that they were thinking the same way. When Audrey and Cher got back from the kitchen, with the tea, George and I were deep into discussion. It was a great help having them as sounding boards to our own thinking. They were about a year ahead of us in the process, so we were able to pick their brains.

This was the beginning of a year and a half long process for Cher and I of prayer, searching and waiting for the Lord’s guidance. It was hard to discern if the motivation for the move was coming from me or if the Lord had put this train of thought in my mind. At the end of the day we both heard from the Lord the following verses at different times which spoke to us convincingly:

These words which God spoke originally to Abraham; “Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you – Genesis 12 v.1”. This verse appears three times in the Bible and between Cher and I we read this verse from all three of those places when we were praying for guidance.

In the space of two weeks in July 1990 I read Isaiah 6 v. 8 which said; “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?’ And I said, “Here am I. Send me!”

This may seem rather clear in hindsight, but at the time we were beset with guilt at leaving our parents and fear of making an irreparable mistake. We were considering a big move and our feelings wavered back and forth like the wind. God in His grace, made it very clear to us ultimately through verses such as those above and also circumstances as we nudged our way forward. By the end of July of 1990 we had received sufficient clarity that we decided I should go over to Canada to check things out, meet some ministries who might be interested in me and see what developed. I stayed with Rose and Roy initially and then began to move around meeting with Scripture Union, Child Evangelism Fellowship and Inter Varsity Christian Fellowship. By that time George and Audrey had arrived in Canada and had been posted to a struggling Presbyterian church in Ile Perot, near Montreal. I visited them and got the scoop on how it was to be newly landed from South Africa. It was both encouraging and daunting at the same time. One of the things that astounded me in Canada was the lack of crime and the apparent absence of need of security. Rose and Roy would leave their house in the woods unlocked, sometimes for weeks on end. One day in August I heard that Toronto had just had their 63rd murder of the year. I thought they must have made a mistake. One weekend in Soweto in South Africa could make up this number of murders. It didn’t seem possible that a country could be this law abiding.

Ontario, Candad - who wouldn't want
to live in country as beautiful as this?
The Anderson Clan were now living near Montreal in Quebec.
The girls learnt to speak French in double quick time


Rob and Roy - preparing for a cold win





Rose and Roy's house in the forest - near
Lakeridge. Who would have thought a house
could be picked up and moved? 




I left my exploratory trip to Canada having been offered a job with SU as Business Manager and in a senior role with Child Evangelism Fellowship. I identified with the SU role despite it being very much an office job. SU in Canada was struggling, particularly with its work with young people. I felt that with my experience from South Africa I would be able to help breathe new life into the work in Canada. This was the job I decided to accept, with much trepidation. SU were keen for me to come and offered to pay our airfares. One by one, our practical concerns and considerations were beginning to be resolved. When I got back to South Africa, we prayed and discussed and reached a place of peace, where together, we felt that God was calling us to go to Canada to work with Scripture Union.

John Booker, General Director of
SU Canada with wife Marjorie
Mom and I were very close. Saying
goodbye to her was very difficult. 
During this process of seeking guidance, life carried on and our responsibilities continued. In the autumn of 1990 Dad died unexpectedly. He had contracted pneumonia and been put in hospital so they could keep an eye on him. He seemed fine. I asked Nev and Al if I needed to be worried and if I should come up to Johannesburg. They assured me that he was ok and there was no need to panic. And then he just died. There was no real warning. I regret to this day that I never got to say goodbye to him. I suppose I’ll get the chance to see him again in heaven. My Mom had been with him at the hospital and had just popped home to have some supper and freshen up. He died while she was at home. She was terribly distressed at not having been there when he went. She worried about this for some time after he died. Then one morning she woke up very early and she said Dad was in the room. He was smiling and looked well and healthy and he said to her, “I’m fine. You don’t need to worry about me”. She stopped worrying after that. Thank you Lord for giving Mom this insight. God is good and loves to comfort us when we are in distress.

With Dad having died in that year it became even harder to think about leaving South Africa. Mom was well looked after by Nev and Al and we lived a long way from her anyway, but somehow moving to the other side of the world was a very final step. At that stage we were well into our plans to leave for Canada and God was beginning to confirm what we had been feeling He was saying to us. With heavy hearts we would be leaving both of our sets of parents and trusting them to the Lord’s care.
Julia and Elaine with dog, Boerie.
Julia couldn't understand why we
were leaving Boerie behind. "He is a
member of our family isn't he?" Ouch.
East London had been a very good time for us as
a family. God had blessed us in so many ways. 
And so it was that on the morning of January 17th 1991 we departed for Jan Smuts airport in Johannesburg. Our farewells had been said in East London and again in Johannesburg. The African chapter of our lives was about to close and the Canadian chapter begin. We were heart broken and yet expectant at the same time. God had been faithful to us in every area in which we had trusted Him. We felt confident this would not change, but our hearts were sore at who we were leaving behind.  Life in Africa had been good to us. We had lived the lives of privileged colonials and whites. We had also enjoyed some immensely satisfying experiences since becoming Christians. Life in God’s service is an adventure filled with color, depth and rich, rewarding experiences. Now we were moving into a different world. What would God have in store for us in Canada? Only time would tell, but we felt secure in the knowledge that nowhere in this world is far from God’s reach. He is just a prayer away at any time. Thank you Lord for the good years you gave us in Africa. We will remember them to the end of our days.