Thursday, 5 December 2024

 

2024 – A year of Fun, Family and unForgettable Memories

When folks ask us how our year has been, our typical answer would be, quiet and uneventful. However, as we review our photos, the memories have flooded in of fun, family and unforgettable memories. We are thankful to God for another year of good health, rich relationships and opportunities abounding.

Winter Blues

The worst of winter is always January and February. The fun and excitement of Christmas and New Year are over, the days are shortest, the cold most bone chilling and the snow just seems to keep coming. These are the days when our bodies cry out for late sleep ins and early bedtimes. Like hibernating bears, we yearn to slumber through the worst of it.

Nevertheless, we managed to busy ourselves by advancing our Back2Basics (B2B) project. B2B aims to replace the current crop of school board trustees in 2026 with trustees who align with core values which will return education back to reading, writing and arithmetic, leaving all inappropriate woke ideologies in the ditch, where they belong. This project is massive as we basically are having to mobilize a majority of the community in our Region of 750,000 people to vote for common sense candidates. Everywhere we find an audience, we are welcomed with open arms, but the challenge of getting to all those potential voters with our message is formidable. We keep telling ourselves this is going to feel so good when we achieve our objectives in two years’ time.

African Adventure

Having endured another dastardly January and February of snow shoveling and huddling around our fireplace, we took off for Southern Africa in March for an African Adventure.

Lunch with Cher's neice Kerry and husband
Russel on the deck of the Royal Livingstone 
Hotel, in Zambia, just above the Victoria Falls 
 - one of the most beautiful spots on the planet

The trip began in Zimbabwe where Rob’s old boarding school, Falcon College, was celebrating it’s 70th anniversary. Rob reveled in his reminiscing for a couple of days, topping it off by speaking at the school Chapel Service, something he had wanted to do since becoming a Christian over 50 years ago. We then headed for South Africa where we spent three weeks reconnecting with friends and family. Despite all the drama of South African politics, life in SA continues to be something we enjoy tremendously, and we have lifelong friends who we love to reconnect with.

The final three weeks of our trip was to do a bucket list overland safari adventure from Cape Town to Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe and Zambia, via Namibia and Botswana. This was a part of Southern Africa we had never visited, and we figured, if we didn’t do it soon, we might never do so. We weren’t disappointed and the smells, sights and sounds of Africa still linger on in our memories. We are so privileged to have grown up in this part of the world which continues to reside deeply within our DNA.

Sultry Summer Shenanigans

...until those dastardly squirrels
wreak havoc and destruction

Cher's garden always looks gorgeous...
Having made virtually no specific summer plans, we fell into a pattern typical of many Canadians. Summers are short, so we eat, drink and be merry as much as possible while the days are long, and the temperatures are fine.

On looking back, our summer seems to have been one long party. Cheryl, whose pride and joy is her garden was flummoxed by a full-frontal assault of squirrels on her potted plants on our back deck. Along with that one squirrel finally figured out how to make it past our baffle which protects the seed in our bird feeder. Each day we would wake to the sight of Cher’s beloved plants having been dug up and trashed. We finally figured out a better and improved baffle for the bird feeder which gave us at least one small victory to show for the struggle. This was a year in which the score ended up being Squirrels 10, Cher 1. Eventually Cher, much to her chagrin, just had to accept defeat – a sign that one of us at least is showing signs of old age.

We still love getting away in our RV
The panoply of fun and pleasing activities kept us on the hop. We didn’t do much RVing, but we did get out for three short trips, which left us wondering why we weren’t doing it more often. There is so much unexplored beauty to be enjoyed across this vast continent we live in. On one of these trips, we met up with our Dinner Club group which back in the day used to meet monthly.  In recent years this group has spread out all over Southwest Ontario. We now meet once or twice a year. This group has been going for over 20 years. It’s always good to catch up with old friends.

We joined Julia and the grandsons on a bike ride
down to Oshawa waterfront which has
a gorgeous outlook over Lake Ontario
Cher and Brenda Killick
at Fenelon Falls

In May we were visited by Brenda Killick, who lives in Vancouver. We first met Brenda in Durban, South Africa, shortly after we were married in 1975. Her husband Dave sadly passed away a couple of years ago. We enjoyed Brenda’s company for a few days including a trip to Niagara Falls. It is great how these long-time friendships stand the test of time. We just seem to take up where we left off, which is wonderful.

Port Perry waterfront pagoda
- an excellent spot to enjoy 
a bit of local music talent

Our Port Perry lakefront is always abuzz with activity throughout the summer. A couple of evenings a week our municipality arranges for visiting musicians to come and provide live entertainment while folks sit in the park, enjoy the music, take in the fine view, and observe all the other people who of course are endlessly entertaining. 

Sam and Granddad, a bit 
bedraggled after a very wet ride

Elaine’s eldest Sammy turned 15 in the summer. He has become an avid cyclist, so we decided to join him doing part of the Lake Ontario Waterfront Trail and take him out to a nice waterfront restaurant for lunch as a treat.

Well wouldn’t you know it, it decided to bucket down with rain at the furthest extent of our ride. We dragged ourselves 10km or so later into the rather upmarket restaurant looking like drowned rats. Building memories is what we call it.

Crow River - lots of nooks, crannies and
waterfalls to explore on the river

Julia likes to keep her boys busy and out of trouble. We joined her for one of her day trips to a place called Crow River Bridge. It features a wide river with some fun waterfalls and mild rapids. The river was the highest I’ve ever seen it. This added a bit of adventure as at times the pull of the water made standing upright in the knee-high water quite tricky. Julia and Rob ventured out into the river at one point with the boys to make sure they were managing ok. The boys skipped happily around like a bunch of jack rabbits on steroids, while Julia and Rob flopped around desperately trying to maintain their footing. We eventually all made it back to shore unscathed, but Julia and Rob decided that the boys were coping just fine without them.

L-R:Cher, James, Esther and Sammy taking their 
turn at coming up with breakfast
Mariah and Gianni taking their
turn at the never ending dishes



L-R: Rob, Sammy, Julia and Gianni get some practice ahead of the annual pickleball contest. 
Sadly there were no awards for us this year. 

The highlight of our summer is always Fairhavens. This is the summer camp that we all go to as a family for a week in August. This year there were about 20 of us in all. On the first night, little Kairo acquired a tummy bug which involved diarrhea and vomiting. It wasn’t long before Mariah and Gianni were suffering the same symptoms. Slowly as the week progressed, each member of our group gradually succumbed, until on the final day, Esther and Elaine were the final victims. 

Back Row L-R: Chris, Julia, Sammy, Esther, Elaine, Kairo, Mariah, Gianni
Middle Row L-R: John, James, Peter, 
Front Row: Rob, Cher, Rose (Rob's sister) and Roy

We had a memorable week at Fairhavens this year, but for all the wrong reasons.

It's hard to beat Fall as a time to get out and
enjoy the beauty of God's creation. 

In September we headed up country in our RV to Arrowhead provincial park to take in some of the Fall colours. On our way home we loaded up our bikes as usual onto the bike rack at the back of our RV. When we got home, Rob went to unload the bikes, only to discover that both the bikes and the bike rack had mysteriously disappeared. Gone – just gone. Somewhere along the way, the whole shebang must have just dropped off. It was a bit of a shock. The bikes were 25 years old and the bike rack low quality so no great loss, but we did wonder which part of the road the pile of metal might be sitting threatening unsuspecting drivers. Rob went to report it to the police in case they could put out an alert of some sort. Well, our trustee police officers could not have been less interested and sent Rob on his way with barely a thank you. All was not lost though, as our neighbors had told us a week or two earlier that they were selling two barely used ebikes. We now had the perfect excuse to justify the extra expense and luxury of ebikes. Cheryl declared she has no further interest in doing uphills on a pedal bike unless she had an ebike, so faced with that compelling ultimatum, we had no choice but to approach the neighbors and offer to relieve them of worrying about advertising their bikes for sale. We are now the proud owners of two top-class ebikes. Thank you, Lord, for engineering this additional blessing in our lives, and Cheryl can now safely face any uphill that challenges her.


Spectacular colors on the Trent Severn Waterway
just below Peterborough's Lift Lock, the 
largest of its kind in the world. 

We enjoyed an extended summer this year, with warmer than average temperatures extending well into October. This was an unexpected bonus. However, there is only so long that nature can go without normality reasserting itself. Ultimately Fall arrived, giving us its annual treat of spectacular color, which can be quite breathtaking in its beauty at times.

Family Roundup

Our family continues to grow and thrive.

Esther, Elaine and Sammy heading out for 
a new school term. 
Elaine, Sammy and Esther – Elaine is a great mother and does a wonderful job as a parent whilst being a single mom. She continues to love teaching Bible at People’s Christian Academy. We wish that we could audit one of her classes as she is such a good teacher.

Many toothpicks and even
more glue will produce wonders


Sammy has started at a new school, where he is fitting in well. He has taken to cycling, exercising daily and is looking lean and mean. He is playing a mean game of badminton and is playing some exquisite piano pieces practicing for his grade 7 piano. Nanna (Cher) is often the one who gets the job of helping him with his projects, but this year Rob was recruited to help him build an unbreakable bridge with toothpicks and lots of glue. It was a proud moment when the bridge held at least a couple of toy vehicles. 

Esther, is sprouting like
a mushroom. 
Esther, now 13, is growing up fast. She continues with twice weekly ballet lessons, to have lots of friends, and do her weekly Awana (Bible memorization) group. She also participates in her school Battle of the Books competition which involves reading 10 books and then being quizzed on the details. Last year her school won first and second prizes.  Sammy and Esther impressed the family at Thanksgiving by playing a piano/violin duet, which had their soft-hearted grandparents going all gooey at the knees.


Chris and Julie have become keen birders and
are always impressing us with their latest sightings

Julia and Chris have had a challenging year. Chris’s health condition has continued to defy diagnosis for a second year. He experiences quite a lot of pain throughout his body and more recently in and around his eyes. Numerous specialists of various skill sets have not managed to come up with a solid diagnosis. One of the possible suspects a couple of months ago was that mould could be causing Chris’s problems. It so happened that they discovered a significant amount of mould in their cold room in the basement, which they were using as a storage room. 




Julia and Gianni ready for battle with the 
dreaded mould awaiting them in the basement. 
After all kinds of professional advice as to how to clean it up, all very pricey, they opted for the cheap solution. We helped Julia build a plastic tunnel from the cold room up the stairs into the living room/kitchen area and out the back door. This enabled the cold room to be emptied without spilling mould spores throughout the house. What followed was two days of disinfecting anything rescuable and dumping the rest. We got involved with some of the cleaning. It was quite an exercise.


Proud Winners of the Lego Rising All Stars Award

John, James and Peter, Julia and Chris’s boys are doing well at their Christian school. They have recovered from the initial shock of moving from homeschooling to formal schooling. They have made friends and are settling down to school life well. They are all playing musical instruments, John the clarinet, James ukulele and xylophone and Peter, the recorder.

All three boys are Lego crazy and attend a weekly club called First Lego League. John and Jame's team were recently awarded the Rising All Stars Award at the regional competion



John, is shooting up 
like a beanstalk
John, 12, loves to read and can be often found with his nose deeply buried in a book. He has recently taken to offering his Granddad (Rob) advice on good authors to read.







James and Uncle Al, having a ukelele jam session

James, 11, is showing interest and talent in his music and especially seems to have a knack of strumming his ukelele with enough gusto to have his audience tapping their feet.





Peter taking it easy

Peter, 9, has settled in well with his classwork. He did a great job of playing his recorder at a recent grandparent’s day. He excels at mathematics which seems to flow out of him quite naturally. We wonder where he got this from. We don’t think either of us.






We have a growing circle of wider family, around 20 – 25 in all, within an hour’s drive of us. We feel really blessed by this, as at one stage we were the only part of our family living in Canada.

Thanksgiving 2024, at Elaine's house,included a great meal, scavenger hunt, music and games
Our growing Canadian clan, always includes a few extras who are connected in various ways. 

Celebrate the Season

Rob and Cher viewing the Victoria Falls from the
Zambian side - a view we grew up with and 
cherish to this day.

Jesus is the Reason for the Season. In this season we remember the One who came in human flesh, to show us the Way. In John 14 v 6 Jesus states, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life, no one comes to the Father except by me”. No other human being has been able to make a credible claim such as this that is believable.  Over 2000 years of history, millions have found that statement to be true in their own lives.  John 1 v 12 says, “to all who received Him (Jesus), to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God”.


This is indeed the Good News that we celebrate and thank God for every Christmas season.

Merry Christmas to one and all, and may God bless you richly in the year ahead.

Rob and Cheryl